This post is a continuation of Pre-Schoolers Learning to Sew Dolls Clothes and can be adapted to other learning experiences.
This old No Non-cents Nanna knows when children are given the opportunity,along with the adults patience, they can do many things on the road to eventual independence.
What parts can a 4 year old ‘sew”?
Remember: this is the child’s project. It is NOT YOUR project to tell the child what to make… so, keep the choices to acceptable and safe limits.*
In image below you will see me stitching a running seam The 4 year old decided we would sew a skirt with purple tulle. She wanted a “big fluffy skirt”.
I had ideas how to design this ball gown.
I expressed my opinion knowing it was good manners to ask, “Is that OK if we drape the material this way?”
It was a good thing I asked because the 4 year old envisioned the back being much much much longer…
..and that is OK because it is for her doll, not mine.
There were very few seams in this gown.
I left the seams raw.
In the image above the 4 year old had picked the color of sticky Velcro to use to fasten the beautiful ball gown.she even helped both sides stick by pressing down hard then counting to 6 or 7 or 8…in any order she chose.
Her Monster High doll with missing arms was now a fairy princess!
“I sewed her Ball Gown all by myself!’
Yes, the 4 year old was learning to sew.
Check out this related link found at Kids Can Sew Official Website
Wiki-How also has a great resource to learn to sew.:
I am Malika Bourne the No Non-cents Nanna encouraging to to make good choices!
Now it is your turn: What do think?
How can you adapt this learning experience to another project?
Note form No No-cents Nanna:
*Giving a few choices allows the child to they have some power and control over their environment. Allowing the child to make choices teaches not only skills for life but encourages good behavior.
There are times for safety sake we parents must firmly state, “This is NOT a choice,this time.”
There are valuable lessons to be learned from making choices as a child. Now, the adult may not chose to do things the same way because we already know the idea will fail. Let it fail with in safe boundaries. The child will learn to make a different choice next time.
( I’m NOT saying to let the kids experience jumping off the Brooklyn Bridge or mixing ammonia and bleach. it would be stupid to not stop them.)
When my best friend from Junior High was quite grown up and a local judge we were confidentially discussing a situation concerning some one we both knew who blew an large inheritance on dumb stuff.
She said, ” Every one needs to make stupid choices with an allowance when they are 12. They will learn to manage theirs lives better than when the parents always tell then what to do.”
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